Heads up, this is totally NSFW.
"Fifty Shades of Grey" is certainly popular, but you might be surprised to learn it doesn't represent the actuality of BDSM relationships very well. Before you run out and buy some ropes and whips and think that's all you need, it's important to know that there is a lot of trust, real communication skills, and a whole lot of vulnerability and consent being flexed in relationships like this. I would recommend watching this whole video to really get an education, but if you're just here to see the collar stuff, it starts at 20:32.
Originally aired on the E! Network, but I found this on SecretWhispersOfCrime's YouTube channel. If you want to read more, here's a helpful article by a professional dominatrix to get you started. If you think it's not possible to be into this stuff AND be a feminist, this is the reading material for you. Aaand, finally, seven tips for safe, happy BDSM sex.
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